Why We Judge Others and What It Reveals About You
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“Why the conversation about mindset and why is it important? It’s not just about success, it’s not about getting shit done, it’s not about being uber successful in business or in life. It’s really how we approach business, how we approach life. It’s actually all about us and how we view the world.”
– Patrick Francey
The MindShui Way: Why We Judge Others and What It Reveals About You
In this episode of The MindShui Way, Patrick Francey and Steffany Hanlen-Francey explore one of the most overlooked habits that quietly shapes our lives: judgment. While most people believe they’re simply observing the world around them, Patrick argues that we’re often interpreting and judging people through the lens of our own beliefs, values, insecurities, and experiences. The conversation challenges listeners to recognize that what we notice in others frequently reveals more about our own operating system than it does about the people we’re evaluating.
Together, they examine the difference between necessary discernment, such as assessing whether someone aligns with your values, and the far more destructive form of judgment that labels, criticizes, gossips, and elevates ourselves at someone else’s expense. They discuss how harsh judgment often masks our own limiting beliefs, fears, envy, and feelings of inadequacy. The conversation also explores why people who constantly criticize others are often directing the same criticism toward themselves.
Steffany shares powerful experiences from elite sport, describing how athletes can become trapped by self-judgment, comparison, and fear of humiliation. Patrick reflects on decades in business, explaining how his perspective has shifted from judging failure to admiring those willing to take risks and learn. They also discuss how success can trigger envy in others, and why studying successful people creates far greater growth than dismissing or criticizing them.
The episode concludes with an invitation to become more aware of the judgments we carry, recognizing them as clues to our own hidden beliefs. Rather than using other people’s lives as a measuring stick, Patrick and Steffany encourage listeners to use every interaction as a mirror for self-awareness, growth, and greater personal freedom. By clearing these mental patterns, we create space for better decisions, stronger relationships, and a more intentional way of living.
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